The same as https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/16031 except
for N-API addons.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/16380
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/13521


Reviewed-By: Gibson Fahnestock <gibfahn@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Daniel Bevenius <daniel.bevenius@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Yuta Hiroto <hello@about-hiroppy.com>
Reviewed-By: Gireesh Punathil <gpunathi@in.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <michael_dawson@ca.ibm.com>